Understanding Melanoma & Power of Support
- “Dancing with the Stars” icon Witney Carson McAllister , 31, recently took to social media to celebrate her 31st birthday with her husband and kids, revealing she understand “true joy.”
- Her sweet post comes 10 years after being diagnosed with an aggressive skin cancer called melanoma. McAllister, who used tanning beds in her teens and both of her parents are melanoma survivors, underwent surgery on her foot to remove the cancer.
- Melanoma is the most dangerous form of skin cancer. It starts in the same cells that give your skin, hair, and eyes their color. In melanoma, the cells change in a way that allows them to spread to other organs.
- Changes to a mole you’ve had for a while or a new growth on your skin could be signs of melanoma, according to SurvivorNet’s experts. You’ll want to watch them and tell your doctor about any changes you notice.
- A support system, like how McAllister has with her husband, can be made up of loved ones like family and friends. It can also be comprised of strangers who have come together because of a shared cancer experience. Mental health professionals can also be critical parts of a support system.
The Provo, Utah native and skin cancer survivor, recently took to social media to share heartwarming footage of her adorable toddler sons Kevin Leo and Jet Carson, singing Happy Birthday to her, while bringing over her birthday cake, with lit candles, with the help of their dad Carson McAllister.
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The Instagram post was also equipped with the following hashtags, “family, family over everything, motherhood, and mom.”
She also commemorated turning another year older on October 18 by sharing a collection of enchanting photos of herself, her husband, and two boys enjoying time spent on the beach by a firepit.
McAllister captioned the post, “This is 31. Feeling incredibly grateful, and SO loved! What an honor to be theirs.
“Thank you to everyone who reached out and made today extra special.”
Her family appeared to be happy while smiling alongside a table with lanterns, yummy treats to make S’mores, fuzzy blankets, flowers, and water bottles.
In another cute Instagram post, McAllister shared an image of her two sons wearing Carhartt hats, looking very hip.
“Life lately. Feeling so blessed and grateful!” she wrote.
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A support system, like how McAllister has with her husband and kids, can be made up of loved ones like family and friends. It can also be comprised of strangers who have come together because of a shared cancer experience. Mental health professionals can also be critical parts of a support system.
“Some people don’t need to go outside of their family and friend’s circle. They feel like they have enough support there,” psychiatrist Dr. Lori Plutchik told SurvivorNet. “But for people who feel like they need a little bit more, it’s important to reach out to a mental health professional.”
Dr. Plutchik also stressed it is important for people supporting cancer warriors to understand their emotions can vary day-to-day.
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“People can have a range of emotions, they can include fear, anger, and these emotions tend to be fluid. They can recede and return based on where someone is in the process,” Dr. Plutchik said.
Meanwhile, licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Marianna Strongin says people faced with cancer should “surround [themselves] with individuals who care and support [them]” throughout treatment while also acknowledging their limits on what they can handle.
“Going through [cancer] treatment is a very vulnerable and emotionally exhausting experience,” Dr. Strongin wrote in a column for SurvivorNet. “Noticing what you have strength for and what is feeling like too much [is] extremely important to pay attention to as you navigate treatment.”
If you’re ever in a relationship where you feel overwhelmed by how your partner is trying to support you, Dr. Strongin says you should try to communicate your feelings. This may help you decide if your partner is the person you want beside you “during this arduous chapter” of life.
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Witney Carson McAllister’s Melanoma Battle
Witney Carson McAllister received the call from a “Dancing with the Stars” producer asking the young dancer to be a professional partner on the show in 2014. She had served as a troupe member the previous two seasons, and the promotion was a dream come true.
However, a few weeks prior, McAllister had a mole removed from her foot that contained melanoma, a disease that had also plagued her parents. At this point, the former tanning salon user was still waiting to see if the disease had spread anywhere else in her body and if she’d need treatment.
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Recounting her diagnosis to NewBeauty about two years, she explained, “When I was 19, my mom noticed a strawberry-colored mole on the top of my foot and said we should go check it out. It was on top left side of my foot and a little bit misshaped, but the most important thing is that it was growing.
“My mom was hypersensitive because both of my parents had melanoma, so it ran in the family. But of course being a teenager in high school, I just thought I was invincible and skin cancer never crossed my mind at all—I was using tanning beds and not wearing sunscreen or protecting my skin at all. I wasn’t really worried, but then we got the results back and they were positive for melanoma.”
She continued, “It’s actually a really crazy story. Right at the same time I got my diagnosis I was also auditioning for ‘Dancing With The Stars.’ I had just finished ‘So You Think You Can Dance’ and I had done the tour—I’m so thankful for it because it really launched my career—but my whole life I wanted to be on ‘Dancing With The Stars.’
“That was my dream since I was 7 years old. And then I had the chance to be on the show and I had this melanoma on my foot, so I didn’t tell anyone—even the producers—for a long time. I underwent a few different abrasive surgeries and it was really hard for me because I was torn between going after my dream and taking care of my health. Ultimately I chose to take care of my health, and luckily I had three weeks to heal before the show went live. ”
McAllister, who has since become an advocate for the disease, also told the Skin Cancer Foundation, “Despite my parents’ brushes with skin cancer, I’d never thought it would happen to me.”
She ultimately underwent surgery to remove an inch of tissue around the mole as well as two lymph nodes from her hip in February 2014 a few weeks before rehearsals for her new gig were supposed to start. Thankfully, her lymph nodes didn’t show any signs that the cancer had spread, and her disease was caught at stage IA.
Still, recovery was “the most devastating, depressing three weeks of [her] entire life,” she recounted to the Skin Cancer Foundation. She had to keep her foot elevated and immobile for 20 hours a day.
“When you’re a dancer, your body means everything,” she said. “I felt like mine had betrayed me.”
Sadly, her healing did not progress as fast as she had hoped and she wasn’t ready to dance when rehearsals began. She tried her best against her doctor’s advice and actually ended up ripping her stitches completely open. Another doctor in Los Angeles advised her to quit for fear of infection, but McAllister was determined to chase her dreams and she did exactly that. Looking back, the dancer who’s now become a household name is proud of what she’s overcome and wears the scar on her foot like a badge of honor.
“What I went through helped me become a better dancer and a better person,” she says. “I’m proud of this scar now. It was a catalyst for everything that came afterwards.”
Learning More About Melanoma
Melanoma is the most dangerous form of skin cancer. It starts in the same cells that give your skin, hair, and eyes their color. In melanoma, the cells change in a way that allows them to spread to other organs.
Changes to a mole you’ve had for a while or a new growth on your skin could be signs of melanoma, according to SurvivorNet’s experts. You’ll want to watch them and tell your doctor about any changes you notice.
WATCH: How do you perform a skin check using the ABCDEs?
You’re most likely to find melanoma on sun-exposed skin areas like your face, neck, arms, and legs. Surprisingly, you might also find them in other places as well, like:
- The palms of your hands or soles of your feet
- On your eyes or mouth
- Under your nails
SurvivorNet experts recommend avoiding unprotected sun exposure because ultraviolet (UV) radiation can lead to melanoma. Tanning beds pose ultraviolet radiation risks for skin cancer and should be avoided. Many dermatologists recommend using spray tans to reduce the risk of melanoma skin cancer.
What Are the Symptoms of Melanoma?
The most important thing to look out for when it comes to finding melanoma is a new spot on your skin or a spot that is changing in size, shape, or color, SurvivorNet’s medical experts say.
When you check your skin, use the acronym ABCDE as your guide:
- Asymmetrical moles: If you drew a line straight down the center of the mole, would the sides match?
- Borders: Is the mole irregular or jagged?
- Colors: Are there multiple distinct colors in the mole?
- Diameter: Is the mole larger than 6 millimeters (mm), about the size of a pencil head eraser?
- Evolution: Has the mole’s color, shape, or size changed over time?
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If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, our experts say it’s time to see your dermatologist for a skin check.
Melanoma Treatment Options
Melanoma treatment has come a long way. Survival rates have risen dramatically, thanks to a “treatment revolution,” say SurvivorNet’s experts. With breakthrough treatments like targeted therapy and immunotherapy now available, people who are diagnosed today have a much better chance of living a long and healthy life than ever before.
If you’re diagnosed with melanoma, there’s a good chance surgery is going to be the treatment your doctor recommends. In the early stages of the disease, removing the cancer should lead to a cure. The question is typically not whether you’ll get surgery, but which kind you’ll have.
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For an early-stage melanoma that is close to the skin surface, Mohs surgery might be an option. This technique removes skin cancer, layer by layer, until all the cancer is gone.
In general, stage I melanoma surgery consists of the simple, in-office removal of the cancerous cells by a dermatologist. If the cancer is thicker, your surgeon will remove it through a technique called wide excision surgery.
The removal of stage II and III melanomas are performed by surgeons or surgical oncologists, not dermatologists. You may also have a sentinel lymph node biopsy to see if the melanoma has spread to the first lymph node where it’s most likely to travel. If your cancer has reached this first lymph node, it may have spread to other neighboring lymph nodes, and possibly to other organs. Where the cancer is will dictate your treatment.
After surgery, the removed tissue and lymph nodes will go to a specialist called a pathologist, who will measure the melanoma and find out if it has clear margins. Having clear margins means the cells around the area of tissue that was removed don’t contain any melanoma. When there aren’t any cancer cells left around the removed area, your cancer is less likely to come back.
Once your cancer spreads, treatment gets a little more complicated, but there are still ways to stop it. New treatments have vastly improved the outlook for people with metastatic, or stage IV, melanoma.
Targeted drugs and immunotherapy have been shown to be more effective than chemotherapy. So, with many more choices, there is no standard treatment. Treatment will vary based on your condition and whether there is recurrent disease.
Research has found that immunotherapy drugs such as Keytruda (pembrolizumab) and Opdivo (nivolumab) helped some people live longer. Combining immunotherapy drugs Yervoy (ipilimumab) and Opdivo (nivolumab) has also extended survival. Opdivo (nivolumab) + relatlimab is a new therapy option added to the National Comprehensive Cancer Network guidelines in 2022. The combination of two immunotherapies is called Opdualag.
For those with the BRAF mutation, targeted drugs which shrink or slow the tumor can be a good option. This could include a combination of drugs, such as:
- Zelboraf (vemurafenib) and Cotellic (cobimetinib)
- Braftovi (encorafenib) and Mektovi (binimetinib)
- Tafinlar (dabrafenib) and Mekinist (trametinib)
- Zelboraf (vemurafenib) and Cotellic (cobimetinib) can also be combined with atezolizumab.
“Every patient is different and every situation is different,” says Dr. Anna Pavlick, medical oncologist at Weill Cornell Medicine. She emphasized that “there is no cookie-cutter recipe,” for treating stage IV melanoma.
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Dr. Pavlick also notes the importance of personalized care and treatment. “It really is a matter of looking at the tools we have so that we can pick the right tools to give the patient the best outcome.”
So, while there is no one-size-fits-all approach to treating metastatic melanoma, your doctor will work with you to develop a treatment plan that is tailored to your individual situation. Advances in research and technology are making the fight against metastatic melanoma more hopeful than ever.
Questions to Ask Your Doctor
If you are diagnosed with skin cancer, you may have some questions for your doctor. SurvivorNet suggests some of the following to help you on your cancer journey.
- What type of skin cancer do I have?
- What treatment options exist for my type of melanoma?
- Will insurance cover this treatment?
- Would treatment through a clinical trial make sense for me?
- What resources exist to help manage my anxiety because of this diagnosis?
Contributing: SurvivorNet Staff
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