Your first meeting with your doctor to discuss treatment plans should focus on your disease, but also your needs, goals, and fears.
"Everyone has a story before they come into your office," observes Dr. Elizabeth Jewell, attending surgeon in the Division of GYN-Oncology at Memorial Sloan Kettering Hospital. "When they’ve told me their story, in some way they've also expressed to me what's most important to them, what they value. And then, together we start on their medical journey, their treatment plan." In this way, your doctor can hear what your priorities are, which will help them create the type of plan that is specific to who you are.
Read MoreHowever, Jewell acknowledges that surgery as a first option may not always be the right choice, which is why a treatment plan always needs to be custom-tailored to the specific needs of the patient. Treatment options may include chemotherapy, and radiation, complementary therapies (which, like acupuncture and meditation, are often used to relieve stress, nausea and fatigue) and possible participation in clinical trials. If you do have surgery and chemotherapy or radiation, it is also important to discuss what your treatment plan should be afterwards. What kind of exercises can you/should you do? What symptoms should you now watch out for? Is there anything you can do to reduce any side effects you might experience from any medications you will now be taking? Will you need any further blood tests, and, if so, how often? How will your lifestyle now be altered, if at all? What will your options be if your cancer comes back?
The bottom line: meeting with your doctor to let them know what is most important to you during this medical journey will best help them create the right treatment plan for you.
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