Finding Moments of Joy
- The Wanted's Tom Parker, 32, is currently battling glioblastoma.
- He is the father of two little ones, a 1-year-old girl and a newborn baby boy.
- Support from family, spouses, and loved ones while battling cancer can help make the journey easier; a positive mental attitude can help, too.
Tom’s Family Support
Parker is married to Kelsey Hardwick, 30, an English actress and vlogger. With their two children, the couple are beginning their cancer journey as Parker undergoes treatment.Having a supportive partner, spouse, or network of family and friends is so important when battling cancer. Many find the support they need from their family. Ovarian cancer survivor, Beverly Reeves, spoke with SurvivorNet and emphasized the importance of having support as you go through cancer treatment. "This is a cancer that not a lot of people want to talk about. Being open and honest with your loved ones about what you're going through can help them understand exactly what support you need, so they can provide it.”
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Follow Reeves’ example, and ask for the support you need. "Get a strong support group together," she said. "Get your close friends. If you're connected to a faith community, get your faith community, and get your family. Let them know what's going on and let them help you."
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Positive Mental Attitude
It’s clear that Parker is trying to focus on the good, as he puts his attention onto happy things, like his daughter playing dress-up. A good attitude while undergoing cancer treatment goes a long way. Dr. Zuri Murrell, a colorectal surgeon at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center, talked with SurvivorNet and he backed it up: Attitude matters.
Dr. Murrell said, “ My patients who thrive, even with stage 4 cancer, from the time that they, about a month after they’re diagnosed, I kind of am pretty good at seeing who is going to be okay. Now doesn’t that mean I’m good at saying that the cancer won’t grow. But I’m pretty good at telling what kind of patient are going to still have this attitude and probably going to live the longest, even with bad, bad disease. And those are patients who, they have gratitude in life.”
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As Parker continues going through cancer treatment, we hope he continues to focus on the good things in life such as family. We’ll be cheering him on through treatment along the way.
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